Leeds expert claims phone addiction could shorten children's lives - and bans daughter from social media

She says as well as mental health being severely affected by social media and excessive gaming, the anxiety related to phone usage could have a huge impact on your cardiovascular system. Psychotherapist Dr Charlotte Armitage, 39, has banned her daughter, nine, from using social media altogether - and limits her phone time to if she needs it for emergencies.

She said: “The impact of phone addiction on all important areas of psychological functioning may contribute to the development of behaviours which shorten the lifespan. I see my daughter’s friends coming round to watch a film, and they’ll just sit on their phones the whole time.

“They’ll be posting things they shouldn’t on platforms they’re not meant to be on. That’s how people are - they become zombies, sucked into a device.”

Charlotte believes growing up surrounded by devices could easily have a detrimental impact on kids’ mental health - and may even end up shortening their lives.

“If you grow up with a device in your face, you’ll struggle to develop interpersonal relationships and skills,” she added. “Deep and meaningful relationships are vital for our mental health and life longevity. Social media should be an absolute no, to all children, full stop. All it’s doing is wiring up the addiction mechanisms in the brain.”

The mechanics of addiction stem from the feel-good hormones in the brain - which can be triggered by receiving likes on platforms like TikTok.

Charlotte said: “Any kind of addiction is a behaviour triggering a release of neurotransmitters in the brain. The brain recognises the action as a reward, and it encourages us to do it again.

“But the more we administer something - in this case, phone usage - the less of an impact it has. Our cells start to deaden off, so we need a more intense hit to get the dopamine going again.

“And we define an addiction when it starts to affect other areas of your life - your friendships, relationships, work, health, sleep. If your friends - or your parents - are constantly telling you to ‘put your phone down, please’ - it means your usage is intruding on real life.”

Charlotte believes the feel-good nature of phone addiction can come from the limitlessness of social media - but it’s also responsible for a number of other issues. She says she believes the only answer is for parents and carers to set boundaries in place when it comes to their kids using devices.

She said: “It’s our job to teach our kids that our communities are our schools, families and friends. Not the whole world on a small device. Children learn by imitation - and if you have your head stuck in a device all day, your children will too.

“It’s on adults to stop the cycle. It’s not about shaming anybody or saying people are doing things wrong. Most people are just trying to do the best they can. It’s more that we just do not realise what these devices are doing to us.”

Dr. Charlotte’s top tips for setting boundaries with devices

1. Social media should be off the table completely if you have young children

2. Devices themselves can be quite educational - let your children use it for school or games like Roblox and Minecraft - but only for half an hour at a time

3. Make sure you’re having regular time together as a family - even something as small as folding laundry together

4. Encourage your kids to immerse themselves in their environment as much as possible, not everything needs to be filmed and CERTAINLY not everything needs to be posted

5. Adults - make sure you’re deactivating your email accounts and work apps every evening and weekend. Getting rid of notifications and deactivating your social media accounts work, too. Putting your phone onto airplane mode during the night is effective for not waking up to notifications